Why Do You Think You’re More Likely to be Queer? Exploring Autistic Perspectives on the Intersection Between Autism and Sexual Minority Identities

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Pemberton, E., Milne, E., & Fox, J. R. E. (2026). Why Do You Think You’re More Likely to be Queer? Exploring Autistic Perspectives on the Intersection Between Autism and Sexual Minority Identities. Autism, Article 13623613261490599. https://doi.org/10.1177/13623613261490599

Publication date: 17 Oct 2026 Added to AutiHub: 17 Oct 2026 Type: Article Article language: English

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Abstract

Autistic individuals are more likely to be sexual minorities (e.g., gay, lesbian, bisexual, asexual). While several theories have been posited to explain this overlap, the voices of autistic sexual minorities are missing from this conversation. Moreover, there is limited qualitative research exploring the intersection between their dual identities. The co-creation of research by autistic sexual minorities is, therefore, an ethical imperative. This research used semi-structured interviews, facilitated by the shared lived experience of the lead researcher. Fourteen autistic sexual minorities were asked why they think they’re more likely to be sexual minorities and how they experience the intersection between their two identities. Reflexive thematic analysis identified four themes: (a) my identities are interconnected, for better or worse, (b) resisting the influence of social norms on sexual orientation, (c) the intersection between autism and a-spec (asexual and aromantic) identities and (d) being autistic within the LGBTQIA+ community. These findings validate intersectionality as a framework for understanding autistic sexual minority identities and suggest that an indifference to social norms is key to autistic sexual minority identities. Recommendations are provided to facilitate inclusive, LGBTQIA+ spaces and develop educational resources to help autistic sexual minorities navigate attraction, intimacy and consent. Lay Abstract Autistic people are more likely to be sexual minorities (e.g., gay, lesbian, bisexual, asexual). Several theories have attempted to explain why this is; however, the actual voices of autistic sexual minorities are missing from this conversation. In addition, there is very little research exploring how their two identities intertwine. As such, a researcher who is part of this community interviewed 14 autistic sexual minority adults to find out why they think they’re more likely to be sexual minorities and how their autistic and sexual minority identities influence one another. Through analysing these conversations, four main themes were identified: (a) my identities are interconnected, for better or worse, (b) resisting the influence of social norms on sexual orientation, (c) the intersection between autism and a-spec (asexual and aromantic) identities and (d) being autistic within the LGBTQIA+ community. These findings suggest that autistic and sexual minority identities combine to produce a unique lived experience. Participants suggested that they may be more likely to be a sexual minority because they don’t care about following typical social norms. Recommendations are given to create more inclusive LGBTQIA+ spaces and develop educational tools to help autistic people navigate the complexities of attraction, intimacy and consent.

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71
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65
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6
17 / 71 (23.9%) cited references include at least one author identified as autistic.
References with data to complete
3 / 71 (4.2%)
References with detected author names
68 / 71 (95.8%)
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3
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3
Without a stable identifier
6
References with raw author names still to review
3
References with external metadata lookup issues
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Author names detected in the cited bibliography
238
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238
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0
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0
Raw names still to review
4
132 / 238 (55.5%) names are linked to an author already present in AutiHub. 106 / 238 (44.5%) names are not yet linked.
Names linked to a person identified as autistic
33 / 238 (13.9%)
Calculated across all author names detected in the cited bibliography. Among names linked to an author already present in AutiHub: 33 / 132 (25.0%). Distinct people identified as autistic: 26 / 215 (12.1%).
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